Archive for April, 2010

goodbye Subaru, hello new knee

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Life has been changing and moving quickly lately. On Saturday, we spent all day at the Handmade Cavalcade craft fair, then on Sunday we took an all-day trip to New Haven, Connecticut, to sell our car. Boohoo. I feel sad about it. We bought our 2004 Subaru Imprezza WRX about two weeks before our wedding in 2003. (The photo above is us driving off in the car after our wedding ceremony.) It felt like our kid, or maybe our home. We drove it across the country twice, and it had been our only car for five years. But for the last year here, in New York, the poor thing just sat parked on the street. We hardly used it (maybe driving 200 miles in the last six months) and Travis had to move it to a new parking spot twice a week. Yuck. Plus, the insurance was expensive. So, it is on to a new life via CarMax and we are car-less. It is a relief to not have to worry about it any longer, and after one last trip to the DMV we will be able to cancel our insurance. I do love extra money!

Early Monday morning we headed to the hospital (by hired car and driver) for Travis’ ACL reconstruction knee surgery. The Hospital for Special Surgery was fabulous and everyone there was very professional. You can read Travis’ thoughts on the experience on his blog. The surgeon said that the surgery went perfectly, and it seems like it did because Travis is recovering quickly. My only complaint is that it now falls solely on me to take Crusher down and up the three flights of stairs to our apartment every time he needs to go outside….

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Life is good and all of the recent excitement has gone as smoothly as we could expect, but I am definitely ready for some downtime! If you need me, I’ll probably be taking a nap.

Recovery

I had surgery on my right ACL yesterday and am feeling great today. Leading up to the surgery I heard various horror stories and stories about how easy recovery was, so I was not sure what to expect.

I arrived at the hospital around 8:00 am and was in the prep room by 8:30. For the next three hours I met with various doctors, nurses and staff preparing me for surgery. I can remember walking into the OR and the anesthesiologist saying, “you are going to feel really good in a couple seconds.” The next thing I knew it was 2:30, I was in the recovery room and I couldn’t move my legs. I was given a spinal block to prevent pain during in my knee and something to put me into a light sleep during the surgery. I was then given something to eat and my first dose of oxycodone. By 3:30 I was dressed and meeting with the physical therapist again, he taught me how to walk on my crutches and how to go up and down stairs. Rachel then called a car and away we went.

Getting up three flights of stairs was one of my biggest worries before the surgery. It turned out not to be a problem at all – I just held on to the rail on one side and one of my crutches on the other and took it one stair at a time. Since I was not given a general anesthesia I was fully coherent, which definitely made the stairs easier.

Rachel spoke to the doctor after the surgery and the doctor said the operation went perfectly. I was extremely impressed with everyone that helped me out during my stay at the hospital. Every person I met with was so nice and made me feel at ease. I was not expecting a bad operation, but I definitely was not expecting to be taken care of so well.

I got home yesterday and got lots of emails, texts and phone calls from friends and family. It was so nice of everyone to remember me and let me know they cared on my big day. Rachel’s parents sent me these flowers with the hope that they help me get walking around quickly like the bionic man, although I am hoping I recover and am more like Dennis Dixon.

I am now in my first full day of recovery and Rachel has been amazing. She has waited on my every need – fixing meals, changing my ice, helping me with my exercises, bringing me everything I need and plenty more. I can not carry anything while on crutches and have no idea how I could recover without Rachel’s amazing care. Rachel, thank you for taking such good care of me!

workin’ it

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Yesterday was Swap-bot’s first foray into craft show sponsorship. We were one of the main sponsor of the Handmade Cavalcade, a yearly show organized by The {NewNew} Etsy Street Team. Our sponsorship package included a booth space at the event. Our table was definitely amateurish compared to the amazing artists’ booths, but we had a lot of fun meeting creative people and handing out Swap-bot swag. Sometimes it is hard to describe exactly what Swap-bot is, but I think we definitely attracted a few new members over the course of the day. It felt great to be a part of the local “handmade” community!

(I plan to write a more detailed report about the event on the Swap-bot blog, but for now you can see a bunch of great photos from the event on MetroMix.)

thoughts on business

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I have been reading a lot of websites and resources about independent and small businesses lately. I am searching for ideas on how I can transform my online life into a successful business I can be proud of. Travis and I have been running Swap-bot.com for over four years, but for most of that time it was only a hobby that supported itself with advertising while we continued our full-time jobs. Ever since moving to New York, I have been devoting myself to Swap-bot and freelance design full-time. In monetary terms, I don’t think anyone would say I am a huge success, but I love doing what I want to each day while meeting tons of cool, online peeps along the way.

Tara, the owner of one of my new favorite blogs, recently started “the kick your door down project” and encouraged others to share their own stories of embracing an adventure or making a big step. I want to add my own story to the project, but it is hard to distill my independent career experience into one defining moment. I think my “kick the door down” moments happen quietly everyday when I make the decision to keep trying to make something out of Swap-bot and myself. Certainly, Travis and I were courageous and bold when we launched Swap-bot, but we were so naive that it didn’t feel like kicking down the door. Now, years later, after all of the site glitches, troll shenanigans, server costs, advertising issues, etc, it feels more like an act of will and defiance to simply carry on.

Gosh, I sound negative, but it isn’t my intent. Running a complicated community website – or any small, independent business, for that matter- is difficult, but it is the ONLY thing I want to do with my work life. The good news is that I think I am getting better at it. Through my experience (and obsessive reading of business blogs), I have compiled a list of ideas/tips for running a web-based business. They are mostly just reminders for myself (I have them written out and flagged in my notebook so that I can read them each day), but I thought others might find them helpful. They aren’t get-rich-quick tips, only simple ideas to keep in mind when you start feeling overwhelmed or discouraged.

My thoughts:

  • Quality, Hard Work & Kindness – This is like the “eat less, move more” diet advice. So darn simple and obvious, but so darn difficult to achieve. Despite that, I still remind myself daily that my ultimate goal is to create something of quality that will help and bring enjoyment to others. Quality and Kindness are on my to do list every day!
  • Embrace Chaos – Another simple statement, but this is one I have really learned to take to heart. The internet is a wild place and there is no way to control it all of the time. Trying to control everything that is said in a forum or everything that is said about your brand will suck up all of your time. I’ve learned to trust others and just let things flow on Swap-bot most of the time and it usually turns out so much better than if I had tried to plan out everything or control every situation.
  • Never Be Negative – I may have already broken this “rule” in this post, but positivity really is the best way to handle nearly every situation. Always present yourself and your brand in a positive light. (Tara, who I described above, just recently posted video on this theme here.) Others may say negative things about you, but the only true way to fight it is to out-shine the few negative snippets out there with tons and tons of awesome, positive content. That sounds so Polyanna-ish, but really it is about showing the best sides of yourself and your business without being fake or cheesy… which brings us to the next idea…
  • Sincerity & Authenticity – I read somewhere (I wish I could find the link…) that authenticity is going to be the next “currency” on the internet because it is so hard to find. I agree. Well, I agree with the idea that authenticity has value. Your personality and your uniqueness are your most important assets when trying to make your brand stand out in the vast sea of the internet.
  • Don’t Take It Personally – So, I just told you to be sincere and authentic, and now I say not to take things personally… it seems a bit contradictory, but this idea is more of a warning: The internet can be ROUGH. There are some weird, hurtful, wild, and crazy individuals out there and sometimes they will hurt your feelings or even do things to hurt your business. Never stoop to their behavior and never respond in anger or emotion. Much, much easier said than done, but trust me on this one. Staying kind and professional will make you feel better in the morning!
  • Set Priorities – This has been the hardest thing for me to tackle. I want to do everything! Answer every email, read every forum post, write every blog post, make every craft, go to every craft show, design all of my own websites, sell each individual advertisement, send each Tweet, and on and on and on… But one person can only do so much. I have been working hard to bring more structure to my days and focus on the tasks that have the highest “return on investment,” to use a business term. Setting goals sometimes sounds cheesy to me (I mean, they have been telling us that since elementary school), but it is vital to understanding which tasks help you reach your goals and which things are just taking up time.

Whew! It feels good to get those ideas written out. They are all very simple concepts, but they are the core “rules” that shape my work. If you want to read more business-related stuff, check out a few of my current favorite resources: Crafting an MBA, Make & Meaning, and of course, Tara Gentile.

Do you run an independent business? What are some of the lessons you’ve learned or ideas that you carry with you to help you stay motivated? Is money the main goal or are we working for something more satisfying?

travel & family

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This is an iPhone photo I took in the taxi on the way home from the airport on Tuesday. It is always a bit magical driving into New York City and seeing the Empire State building and the Brooklyn Bridge. I love being a passenger so that I can stare out the window.

Last week, I traveled to Kansas City to visit my family. This may sound a little over-the-top, but I am related to some of the most wonderful people in the world. I am lucky. The most amazing part is watching all of my younger siblings (I am the oldest) become awesome adults – adults that I want to be like and be friends with. All of my siblings (both by blood and marriage) live lives of education, service, and hard work. It is inspiring.

Now I am back in NYC, far from my family and trying to do some of my own hard work… I better get back to my email!

The 2010 Eightfivethree Classic – In Review

It was a bit of a wild 2010 Eightfivethree Classic and with Kansas bowing out way too early I was in no mood to report on the results. Today, however, Rachel pointed out that she got third place in the Classic, so I figured I should give the winners their moment of glory.

I would like to thank everyone who participated this year and and extend a very big “Congratulations!” to this year’s top five winners (team name followed by real name):

  1. Florida Ray – Ray
  2. Jravis Tohnson – Adam
  3. sportssuperfan – Rachel
  4. Jayhawk07 – Nina
  5. travis – Travis

To the other eight of you that did not make this very special list, better luck next year.

Update on my knee

I never actually posted it here, but I hurt my knee a few weeks ago playing basketball. With about three minutes left in out city league basketball game, I went up for a pass and landed on my foot wrong. I immediately felt my knee move in a way it shouldn’t and then move back in to place. I went in for an MRI the next day and found out I had completely torn my ACL.

I have decided to get surgery on April 26th. The doctor said I didn’t have to get surgery if all I wanted to do was move in a straight line for the rest of my life (walking, running & biking) and would probably be fine. I, however, would like to return to an active life and don’t want to always have to be worrying that one false step could further injure my knee.

The only decision I really have to make is the what I want to replace my ACL with. I can go with my own patella or get a tendon from someone else. Anyone interested in donating? After some reading, I decided to get my replacement from a cadaver. I read a medical how-to from my brother-in-law and found that I could contract a bunch of different diseases and my knee could be a bit less stable than if the tendon came from another part of my body, but on the upside, I have a lower risk of arthritis and knee pain associated with the removal.

I will keep you posted.

The ‘bot

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This is some of our new Swap-bot swag. We are sponsoring the Spring Handmade Cavalcade here in Brooklyn in a few weeks and I wanted to have some fun stuff to hand out at our booth. I really like my new striped business cards and the little, square Swap-bot stickers. I had fun designing them!

Unfortunately, the general operations and administration of Swap-bot has not been fun or easy lately. I am feeling discouraged. As just one example of the crud that has been sucking up all of my time lately, we recently had a user pretend to have their account hacked in order to get out of sending a bunch of swaps that they owe. I wish I could say that it is the first time someone attempted the bogus hacker excuse, but it has actually happened many times. It is especially awful because anytime the word “hacker” is even mentioned other users of the site get upset and frightened that Swap-bot isn’t safe… even though every supposed “hacker” has been completely made up by a user who doesn’t want to fulfill their own commitments. I am continuously baffled by how dishonest and cruel some people can be… and over something as seemingly fun and innocent and trading crafts through the postal mail. I think I have mentioned this before, but we have had people fake their own deaths in order to get out of swaps! So wild!

My only plan in regard to Swap-bot at the moment is to keep on keeping on. I try hard to stay positive and to continue to provide a place where people can share their creativity… We’ll see what comes of it…

Stitchfest

On Thursday night, I traveled to Chelsea to attend Martha Stewart’s “Stitchfest,” a party celebrating the launch of her new Encyclopedia of Sewing and Fabric Crafts. I met my friend, Lisa, at the Chelsea Market beforehand for dinner at The Green Table, a local and organic restaurant in the Market. (I ordered a chicken Pot Pie, which was tasty, but it ended up having a big bone in it. boo.) I will need to check out the Chelsea Market again sometime soon, because it is lovely and we only got to browse a bit of it.

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After dinner we headed over to the MSLO building! I was so excited for Stitchfest. I had bought my tickets weeks earlier after Lisa pointed me to the event announcement. I do not know why I continue to be so crazy about Martha Stewart, but I do. Lisa and I posed with her photo at the entrance to the event…. don’t worry, we weren’t the only ones doing it! Supposedly, Martha was there for a short time, but we missed her.

I am not sure what I was expecting at the event, but it turned out to be a nice, if very tame, evening. There were crafts to do, but we didn’t get in line in time. We did manage to get in line for the free embroidered tea towel from the Pfaff sewing machine booth. That was fun. The reps for the machine were really nice. We also entered a lot of drawings, saw lots of lovely sewing projects examples (like the quilting seen above), and munched on a few hors d’oeuvres. I think I expected there to be more of a chance for chatting or networking, but I didn’t really make an effort, either.

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The best part of the night was the goodie bag! The Stitchfest ticket price got you a copy of the Encyclopedia of Sewing and Fabric Crafts, which I am really excited to study and find a few projects to make. I need help with my sewing skills, so I am happy to have this resource. It is nearly 400 pages of projects, glossaries, and sewing technique instructions, all with tons of pretty, full-color photography. Many of the projects are from previous issues of Martha Stewart Living, but it is nice to have them all in one place. Also, in our goodie bags were the current issues of all of MSLO’s magazines. I am most excited for the Weddings issue – it used to be my favorite! We also received thread, dye, and needle samples, plus a brad new pair of Martha Stewart Crafts Precision Scissors. I actually needed a pair of those! I don’t have any type of sewing or embroidery scissors and I have been doing a lot of hand-stitching lately…

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Anyhoo, the goodie bags were exciting and they were a great way to end the night. I am not sure if I would attend another MSLO event like Stitchfest in the future, but I am glad I checked this one out.

colorful inspiration

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Two of my very cool and creative internet colleagues, Deb & Christy from Toolulu.com, visited New York City for business early this week and they were kind enough to invite me along sight seeing on Tuesday. The weather on Tuesday was actually horrendous. It was cold and windy and pouring rain nearly all day – not the weather you want for sight seeing on foot. But we were determined and we managed to hit many of the crafty destinations in the city.

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The two photos above were taken at Mood Fabrics in the Garment District. The warehouse store has become something of a tourist attraction since it has been featured on Project Runway, but it was my first time there. I would guess Mood has any type of fabric you could possibly be looking for… but you definitely need to have a project in mind if you go there to shop. The choices are overwhelming! I bought some neon pink & grey ribbon that jumped out at me.

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Next, we trekked over to M & J Trimming. (You may recall my previous trip there.) I bought a bunch of ribbon – including more neon, it is sort of my new thing – and some pom-pom fringe. We also checked out Fishs Eddy, where we saw the bowls pictured above, and ABC Carpet and Home. Swoon! I love that place so much. We picked up Crumbs cupcakes, had ‘Wichcraft sandwiches for lunch, and then headed to Soho before the girls had to leave for the airport. It was such a fun “vacation” day for me even with all the rain!

StashBustBadgeGood thing the Toolulu girls’ visit happened in March and I got all of my ribbon buying out of my system, because this month I have taken the April Stash Bust pledge. I have committed to not buying any new craft supplies this month and instead to making things only with items I already have in my stash. The intention is to help the earth a bit in honor of Earth Day on the 22nd and to think about how we use the things we buy. It fits in perfectly with the idea of Reduce, Reuse, Recycle. Swap-bot is one of the sponsors of the April Stash Bust “event” and you can learn more over on the Swap-bot blog. There is even a stash craft contest with some awesome prizes, but you have to take the pledge in order to enter! I am also hosting an April Stash Bust craft supply swap in conjunction with the Challenge and I’d love to have you join. We are each going to send an envelope of extra, unused supplies from our personal stashes to our swap partner. It’s a great way to give new life to neglected supplies and get some fresh stuff in return! Fun!